First of all,
the idea of a Model Minority that many people have about Asians is a racist
myth. And it’s harmful because it causes
undue pressure to people who don’t always measure up to its ideal. Second, the myth may partly be based on the
fact that Asian immigrants to the West are usually very hard workers and
diligent students. But this is also true
of Caribbean immigrants (Remember the joke about them having five jobs each?),
Latino immigrants, African immigrants, you get the picture. Second and third generations aren’t usually
as driven.
It goes
without saying that no racial or ethnic group is superior to any other. Those who compare groups and come up with ‘evidence’
to prove that fact are usually not taking history into account. Also they’re usually people who don’t belong
to either group. More often than not, false equivalencies are inaccurate
indicators of anything.
My first two
years in Japan I taught at a school in a tiny mountain village. Country kids are universally more relaxed and
well-behaved than city kids because they hold on to childhood a bit
longer. My friends who teach in big city
schools have a very different experience.
Their students grapple with bullying, smoking, drinking, and violence
toward each other (and sometimes toward teachers). I’ll share a few
observations I’ve made about the not-so wonderful side of teaching in
Asia. While most examples are from Japan,
there are many similarities with Korea.
One of the
eighth graders stinks like a homeless old man who hasn’t bathed in weeks. The school nurse and his homeroom teachers
refused to say anything for fear of upsetting his parents. Meanwhile, he was insulting his classmates
and teachers daily with the stench.
There is
another boy who does bathe regularly, but sweats a lot, so whenever you get
near him, it smells like an ogre’s armpit.
Nobody will speak to his parents about it or even give him a deodorant.
Japanese
schools have rules on top of rules about the most insignificant minutiae, but
zero consequences if students break rules.
So a boy beat up the smallest girl in the school (threw her down and
banged her head repeatedly on the cement while several other boys watched) and
his punishment? He got yelled at by the
Social Studies teacher. That’s. It.
One time a
student came to school wearing yellow socks (the uniform requires white socks)
and the staff made such a big deal about it, you’d think he’d shown up in his
pajamas. It was discussed during staff
meeting and the mother was called. Yet,
a girl gets beat up by a bigger boy and they basically just shrug it off.
The school
nurse is lazy. She spends half the day
scrolling through shopping websites.
Whenever a kid is unwell, she immediately calls mothers to come pick
them up. She won’t let any of them to
lay down for a few minutes on one of the beds in the nurse’s room. The absolute minimum is what she does. Her husband is the superintendent of schools,
so nobody dares complain about her. One
time a kid went to the nurse with a belly ache.
The nurse immediately called the mother.
The thing is that she is a divorced working mother, not a housewife, so
she can’t just jump up to pick up her son.
The nurse did not care. She
pressed her to get someone to take the kid home. Finally, the mother was able to get a retired
neighbor to do her the favor. When the
neighbor showed up, I was shocked. He
looked at least 95 years old.
Sexism: at some schools, student names appear in
alphabetical order; boys first, girls second.
So a girl whose surname begins with A comes after a boy whose surname
begins with Y. This matters because
everything is done according to class list order. If I’m giving a speaking quiz, the students
will be sent to me in that order. During
the graduation ceremony, students march in and are given their diplomas in that
order. When the dentist came to school,
every homeroom went down to get checkups.
Things took longer than expected.
So when the period began, I had a classroom full of boys. Why?
Because they got checked first and the girls were all still waiting to
be seen. This sends children the message
that girls are lesser than boys. When I
asked my co-teacher why this is done, he gave the most laughable BS explanation
with a straight face. And of course, he
sees nothing wrong with the way things are because, as a man, he benefits from
society being sexist.
Everything is
run by old men. They prefer to keep
things the way they have always been, which makes the smallest thing
complicated. I asked for the school’s
WiFi password so I could find images to add to a PowerPoint presentation I was
creating for class. I wanted to use my
five-year-old laptop because it’s faster than the school’s clunky
desktops. After a few phone calls, I was
told that they don’t give out the Wi-Fi password because it will compromise the
firewall. What? I’m no IT expert, but I know that that
explanation makes no sense. Why even
have WiFi if you’re afraid to give people the password?
If you care
about the environment, the insane amount of paper that is wasted every day will
send you into despair. Instead of
e-mailing announcements, they print them out and give each teacher one. Multiple announcements every day…always
one-sided, and sometimes multi-page. Everything must have a hard copy. If it’s not mailed physically, it must be
faxed. Yes, faxed. The last time I sent a fax was in 2002. Then I came to Japan and had to start sending
faxes regularly.
Students with
special needs or with mental issues often go undiagnosed and untreated. Most schools don’t have trained special
education teachers. There’s an acute
nationwide shortage. At my last school,
the special education students were the responsibility of the music
teacher. She could often be heard
shouting at them about minor infractions.
I don’t have any training to deal with such students, but I do know that
a bit patience goes a long way, and shouting is not an effective way to get
anything accomplished with ANY child.
At another
school, the physical education teacher was charged with taking care of the most
difficult special education student. He
was a first-year teacher fresh out of university. The school already had a PE teacher, but they
hired him because they needed someone to handle the most disruptive, physically
aggressive kid in school. That teacher
never got to teach any PE classes. He
felt tricked. This is not what he signed
up for----to be a babysitter or to be scratched, bitten and kicked. The boy he was charged with didn’t just have
a learning disability, he had serious socio-emotional issues, which would be a
challenge even for a veteran teacher, much less a new graduate. Understandably, he quit after the first year.
So, no, teaching here isn’t necessarily easier. It can be very frustrating, especially if you care about the students.
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